Activity to understand stress

by Joan
(Neward, NJ)

Hello. I am looking for something concrete that I can do to see if I have a problem with stress. Do you have an activity to understand stress?


I do have an activity that has worked really quite well with my clients in the past. It's very simple, yet great clarity can come from it regarding the stress in your life.

Remember when you were in grade school and around Thanksgiving you would draw around the outside of your hand to look like a turkey?

You are going to do that 2 x's. Do an outline of your left hand, and one of your right hand.

On top of the sheet with your left hand, write the word "Before". On each finger, you are to write one of the following words (thoughts, physically, emotionally, behaviors, purpose in life) until each one has a word written on it.

On this sheet, think back on your life as you remember it "before" the stress that you are aware of now in your life. You will look at your life thru the lense of each of those keywords.

On the sheet with the outline of your right hand, you will repeat this process. But, on the top of the sheet you will write the word, "Now".

This is a very good self-awareness building practice that lets you see holistically how much each facet of YOU has changed with the stress in your life.

That will be your benchmark for whether you are doing fine, or if you need to gain more knowledge and skills to help manage your stress.

Take care,
Cathi

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