Balance teen stress

by Angel
(Los Angeles)

Can you tell me if there is a way to balance teen stress? I'm so worried about my daughter.


Angel, thank you for such asking such an important question.

The lives of our teenagers are being very impacted by stress, and yet it is really not their faults because I do not believe they are being taught the information and skills that are needed to effectively cope with stress.

Having said that, here is what I think is so important about creating balance with teen stress.

Stress impacts all facets of who we are...the BEST (body, emotions, spiritual, thoughts) in us. For me, the most important stress education and skill building begins with helping teens to understand that they, too, have all these parts to who they are.

It is a foundational piece to managing stress.

The other most critical information is to help them to understand how the stress response works and how frequently their thoughts of uncertainty are triggering it and causing the behavioral and physical by-products of chronic stress.

Once they have that foundational understanding it then makes more sense why doing healthy deep breathing from the abdomen is so effective in coping with stress.

I offer these as a starting point because, I feel, that without this information and skills, whatever other stress relaxation techniques will fall by the wayside.

More important discussions need to follow this.
Contact me.

Take good care,
Cathi

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Throughout each day, the primary cause of stress is because of threats of uncertainty.

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