how to stop worrying?

Worry feels like a chronic state in me sometimes how can I deal with it?

Thank you for the question. I can assure you that you are not alone in your feeling that worrying is all that you do. And, it is important to take this awareness seriously. The World Health Organization estimates that by 2020, psychological and stress-related disorders will be the second leading cause of disabilities in the world.

As I read that projection, one of the main reasons that I believe it will be true is because of how prevalent mental stress, i.e. fears and worries, are in the world today. And, from a stress response perspective that really is the deal. The stress response is getting triggered by any thoughts of uncertainty - whether real, or perceived. When this happens chronic stress begins to significantly impact your life physically, emotionally, spiritually (relationships with self and others), and your thoughts.

Your thoughts of worry become like the sabre tooth tiger that you are constantly running in fear from.

This one topic, is one of the most important conversations that we could have. And, I hope you will take advantage of the free 1/2 hour consultation. There are so many vital things for you to understand in order to re-gain a sense of empowerment and to start feeling more in control again.

Until then, let met share a few things with you. Both your emotions, and your body have to manifest what you are thinking about. They will respond. Emotions don't just occur for no reason - they are a by product - of a thought process. That's how important it is to recognize the powerful role our thoughts play on our health and well-being. And, that reality can be one of the most challenging realizations we face in these current times.

In the short term, give yourself more opportunities to create physiological stress. Chronic stress keeps you functioning from an out of balance condition, and that is what ultimately can lead to illness and diseases.

And, develop a mantra...a prayer...a short sentence that allows you to smile, feel good, or to at least feel grateful for something. Keep repeating that mantra throughout the day as you do your breathwork. The combination WILL begin to create a change in your world.

I look forward to our conversation,
Cathi

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Throughout each day, the primary cause of stress is because of threats of uncertainty.

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