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Stress Management For Women

There is sacredness to being a woman, and there needs to be stress management for women that honors all the hats you wear.

Maybe it is because I am a woman that I understand the stressors involved in being one.

I honor all sacred humans, both men and women, but I have found in working with my clients that there are differences in the stressors that they face, and in how most women have learned to cope with stress.

Is stress for women different than for men?

Often times, the answer is yes.

Most women possess a maternal nurturing responsibility. It doesn’t seem to matter if that is at home, at work, or at play.

Most women have not only been taught, but have a natural inclination to ensure that the needs of everyone else are met before your own. This dynamic is especially true with a woman’s child.

Women and the stress response

The stress response is the “fight or flight” response. This is an automatic alert system that is part of the autonomic nervous system of the brain.

Within the autonomic nervous system, there are two parts:
  • The stress response, and
  • The relaxation response
Those two parts of the brain are like the operating systems of your computer. There is a constant balancing act that occurs between them each day. Under normal circumstances your body will innately regain its balance.

It is important to understand that the main function of the brain is to help you to survive. Even though stress can become very damaging to the body when it becomes chronic, the initial job of the stress response is to help you to survive…




The stress response automatically gets triggered when the brain perceives a threat of uncertainty. It is one’s perceptions that trigger this response. Unfortunately, in the world in which we live most women experience those threats of uncertainty in the form of:
  • fears
  • worries
  • threats to your ego
  • or threat of not living up to an expectation (internal or external)
For the majority of my female clients, the most common reaction I hear is,

What am I supposed to do? You just described my life!”


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Top 5 stress management for women strategies

The World Health Organization estimates that by 2020, psychological and stress-related disorders will be the second leading cause of disabilities in the world.

Chronic stress is a big deal…especially for women.

Now is the time to offer more attention and intention towards stress management for women.
  1. The usual things…
    I almost don’t mention these usual things stress management strategies, but they are so necessary. It is important that you eat a healthy diet, get at least 20 minutes of activity (movement) each day, and get 6-8 hours of sleep.

    The human body is incredibly resilient, but it is also a sacred temple that needs to be taken care of with great intention.


  2. Develop your self-awareness
    Without blame, shame, or any judgment begin each day by giving yourself permission to just notice how you are currently doing life.

    Visualize yourself sitting in a movie theatre and you are just watching the movie…which is your life. Let yourself become a learner about your own coping strategies.

    Take one minute to take the free stress management survey. The point is to learn more about yourself.


  3. Slow deep breathing
    In my humblest opinion, the core foundation piece to any effective stress management program is to do more conscious slow deep breathing. It is the single most important stress relaxation technique you can utilize.

    When you are able to take a nice slow deep breath (beginning at your abdomen) the vagus nerve will then activate the relaxation response. It is the activation of that response that invokes that sense of peace and restores balance to your body.




  4. Release emotions
    It is very important to establish healthy “releasing stress strategies”. Pent-up emotions truly can be deadly.
    • Yell loudly in your car
    • Make a loud noise as you are punching a pillow
    • Vigorous exercise
    • Sing loudly
    • Cry


  5. Talk it out
    One of the most important stress management strategies for women is to just talk to another woman with whom you trust. It is important to have a confidant who will just let you talk – without a need to fix anything – just let you speak your truth out loud.

    Women are powerful healers.
  6. Stress management for women begins by developing an awareness of your power and then learning how to reclaim it.





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Throughout each day, the primary cause of stress is because of threats of uncertainty.

It is thoughts of fear and worry that are triggering the stress response.

Staying focused on maintaining a positive attitude is an important stress technique.



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K., age 45, is a long term chronically PTSD disabled patient. She has had daily headaches for 20 years. Two weeks ago she reported that she had had 4 days of pain free time, and was having the exceedingly odd sensation of "smiling all the time". She and Cathi have made extraordinary fast progress together.
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I referred C.L., age mid-forties, to see Cathi after a life of suffering the post traumatic stress disorder of parental sexual abuse over many years of her childhood, with major dysfunctions of alcohol and drug abuse, and with the disabling symptoms of migraine that have for more than twenty years become chronic.

She has lived with daily headaches that have not responded to any of the several drugs which have benefited many such suffering patients. She has needed chronic opiate treatment of her chronic pain syndrome.

In the few weeks that Cathi has worked with her, C.L. has begun to experience days without pain, periods of happiness, and a reduction in her opiate dosage requirements that represent a breakthrough in her stalled-out life as a single mom raising a teen-age daughter with only social security income resources.
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“I first met Cathi Churchill eight years ago when she effectively helped my work unit through the stress of a hospital-wide layoff. I was impressed with her clear-minded approach and willingness to listen.”
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N., age 60, is a hard driving attorney twenty year patient of mine who hit the wall with chronic fatigue four years ago, and began to realize she had to learn to rest. She recovered enough to return to her workaholic lifestyle when she was stopped by a herniated cervical disc and resumption of her chronic colitis.

Working with Cathi, she is discovering "the way she does life" and learning to make choices about it. She came in last week, having "danced until dawn". She is learning to dialogue with her body in effective ways.
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“I stumbled upon Cathi after my recent heart attack that was brought on by stress. I was scared of having another one, and didn’t know what to do. I had lost hope. Working with her has changed my life. I’m so grateful."
Debbie – Canada




M.S., a woman in her late forties with progressively more and more disabling rheumatoid arthritis since childhood, whose most recent problems have arisen over the last two to three years as complications of immunosuppressive therapy for her disease. The complications have been associated with the severely disabling chronic pain of recurrent herpes neuralgia for more than three years, and for the past 15 months, recurrent osteomyelitis in her right lower mandible.

The second, more alarming (even life-threatening) problem has caused months of diagnostic and therapy confusion among her many consultants, three successive resections of the bone over the last six to eight months, and the still ongoing threat of more relapses of the smoldering bone infection and chronic pain only made bearable by chronic, massive doses of opiates.

In the few months since M. began to work with Cathi with several modalities: stress management, therapeutic touch, guided imaging, and others, her life has become more livable, as she has become able to bear the pain and the discouragement of unresolved disease.

She has relied on many of the methods for maintaining hope and getting through overwhelming discouragement by using the inner resources she has learned with Cathi.

My hope as her primary physician, is that Cathi and M. will be able to continue to work together to maintain that inner strength and hope as she faces yet more months of pain, and further repeated surgery.

Thank you for the healing guidance you've been able to give her thus far.
Dr. Racer




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S., age 48, is a Laotian patient of mine with 15 years of chronic abdominal pain. She has had an extensive medical worked up, and nothing ever worked. Cathi saw her over several months.

S. has improved! Cathi established a trusting relationship with her, and helped her to effectively break through her wall of silence and grief about her son's mental illness, and taught her how to "change her thinking".

S. now comes in smiling, notes some unusual continued symptoms, but no longer has chronic abdominal disabling pain.
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